I have come to realize that change will only happen when you are honest with yourself and have the motivation to make these changes toward your own happiness. That's not to say that you make them selfishly.....without thinking who you hurt along the way..... that's not what I'm saying. The changes I made is what's best for my family and as time goes on, everyone realizes that it was for the best for everyone.
I continue on this road with God at my side and the love of family around me. With that in mind, I cannot fail.